Though our separation is still quite fresh, darling ex and me where talking about moving house. Not that he wants me to move house or is rushing me. Not at all. But we both know, we can’t live under one roof forever, especially when we start dating again.
But when is the right time to move out and separate the family?
Where will I go?
Will I find somewhere affordable? Will it be a nice area?
How far away will I move?
Will I buy or rent? And if I rent, will I be able to take my kitties? And if I plan to buy (which I would prefer), would I be granted a mortgage???
How sad will my babies be to “live” in two places from now on?
Will I find work in the area?
The last one is the most important one! Since I want to go up north, how are the chances to find a job nearby my new place and will it be manageable with the children and school???
Will my darling ex, the babies and me, still be a tight knitted team?
Can I even afford to move, as in new furniture etc. At the current moment the answer would be “no”.
So many questions, so little answers…