Recently I had a very serious talk with my husband about our relationship.
Now I have to inform you, my husband can be very jealous and therefor controlling. And when he asked me, if I have cheated on him, my answer was “no”. Because I don’t lie and wouldn’t do something like that behind his back! So he asked, if I wanted? I replied “only if you give me permission”. He didn’t like this one bit! He doesn’t want to share! He nearly had a heart attack and nervous breakdown. He hates it when I am flirting! But flirting to me, is like breathing. It comes natural and I do it without thinking. I might flirt with young, old, women, men. And there is nothing to it. Nothing sexual. It is just the fun bit, you know, where you have a fun, nice, easy going exchange of words which makes you smile and giggle. That’s all!
I always been like this and you need to have a really thick skin to be with me, I have to admit.
The thing with temptation is this, whoever you go, it is always in reach!
Am I tempted to cheat? Am I (actively) looking for it? And what does it contain? Where does cheating start in your point of view?
As for me, I am very relaxed about this topic. Would I mind if my husband would kiss or even have sex with someone else? Honestly? No, as long as he comes back home to me!
Temptation can be anything from a look, a word, an innocent touch.
It is about how far you go!
Everyone can be tempted, but everyone also got the will to stop!