Since I moved house I started to work in a establishment where the very wealthy and rich walk in and out on a daily basis.
I do enjoy my job and I was well trained by a very nice lady I work with.
My shift starts at 6am, therefor I cycle the 3 miles every morning and leave at around 5:15am, day in, day out.
I am always on time, often even 20 minutes early which I don’t get paid and I don’t mind.
I am polite and helpful to staff and guests, I smile and greet all the time whether I get a response back or not.
I am dedicated and want to give 110%.
I do all this because I like working where I work and because I need the money.
Now I was told a couple of times that I have to do something about my neck tattoos.
I was actually told at induction, that the employer wants to loosen up a bit and as long tattoos are not offensive, it is okay to have them on display.
Apparently that does not apply to the neck.
I was told to either cover it with make up or put plasters on.
Did I mention that my neck tattoos are hand big on either side of my neck?!
And yesterday it was ordered from very high above, that I should cover it, maybe by keeping my hair open.
It was actually ordered, that I was to be placed out of public eye!!! But my lovely boss wouldn’t have it so today I am having my beautiful locks chopped off to chin length.
The thing is:
However ordered it (I may go back to my boss regarding this matter to find out who it was to consult him/her myself), does not even know me in person and just reduced me to my tattoos which is a very sad thing as it does not say anything about my personality and work!
This goes against my core beliefs:
Do not judge a book by its cover!!!
I thought it is the year 2018 and the society is all open minded. But it shows once more that many people just look down at you and not see you at the same level as them.
I am fully aware that having neck tattoos cause problems in the work world and it isn’t the first time I have to cover them, I just feel insulted, that the person did not contact me him/herself to discuss the matter and find a solution together!
THAT wouldn’t have been a big deal at all.
Sad sad times….