….. me being friends with exes:
My husband thinks, men and women can’t be friends and that it is weird and even worse to be friends with an ex as often one is not over the other or does develop feelings.
Well he’s got a valid point. But as for me, I could never fall in love with a close or best male friend and/or go back to an ex.
I personally think, when you split up, it wasn’t meant to be!
And falling in love with someone you know inside out is just not my thing.
I like being friends with some of my exes, just because (at least if you have been in a long-term relationship) I like the closeness. You know each other, you or at least I, know what the other person thinks and usually you feel comfortable.
But that is not love anymore, it is more like brother/sister love, you know what I mean? And I wonder “where is the harm?”
If you trust your partner, you don’t have anything to worry, and at least I am cocky enough to think:
I am the best someone can get, once you have me, you don’t let go!
So yes, my husband may dislike me being friends with exes and blokes, but I quite enjoy it and therefor do not believe in changing my ways! Thanks!